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What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas (Sometimes)
I recently went to Las Vegas for a medical conference. Everywhere I went, I saw signs with the slogan “What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas!”. This led me to joke to one of my gynecologist friends– “Sure. Except if it’s herpes.”
I guess I thought that was funny at the time. But it occurred to me that it’s dangerous to propagate the idea that acting out (sexually or otherwise) is without consequences.
It’s not that there’s anything wrong with Vegas. And I’m not one to knock bachelor/bachelorette parties and a night of cocktails. But if being forewarned is being forearmed, then using a condom is some food for thought you won’t find at the $19.99 dinner buffet. And I’d like to give you, gentle reader, the skinny on a few souvenirs you don’t want to bring home with you.
Some sexually transmitted diseases can be cured with antibiotics. These include gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphillis and trichomonas. All of these can be diagnosed with simple tests available in your doctor’s office. Treatment of sexual contacts is important, and should occur for both partners at the same time. All can be prevented with the use of latex condoms.
Gonorrhea and chlamydia are often lumped together when discussing sexually transmitted diseased (STD’s). They are distinct diseases caused by different microbes, but are often found together in co-infections. Both can be asymptomatic. When symptoms occur, they often show up 2 to 3 weeks after infection. Common complaints include
- A yellow vaginal discharge
- Painful or frequent urination
- Burning or itching in the vaginal area
- Redness, swelling, or soreness of the vulva
- Pain in the pelvis or abdomen during sex
- Abnormal vaginal bleeding
- Rectal bleeding, discharge, or pain
Gonorrhea and chlamydia are diagnosed by laboratory analysis of samples taken from the cervix using a cotten swab. Timely treatment of gonorrhea and chlamydia can prevent infertility, which can be a complication of advanced infection. Treatment is usually oral medication or a combination of oral medication and a shot (like a flu shot) given in the arm. Advanced infections may need to be treated in a hospital with intravenous medication.
Syphilis first appears as a painless genital sore called a chancre (pronounced like “shank-er”). It lasts 10 days to 6 weeks after contact with an infected partner. Swollen lymph nodes in the groin m ay also occur. A rash on the palms and soles (of hands and feet) occurs durng a second stage of infection 1 week to 3 months later. Flat warts or a flu-like illness may occur at this time. Syphillis can be diagnosed with a combination of physical exam and blood tests. Early treatment is important to prevent long-term problems including birth defects in children of infected mothers. Treatment usually consists of antibiotics given as a shot (in the arm or buttocks) and may need to be given more than once.
Trichomonas vaginitis is a microscopic parasite that is spread through sex. Many people have no symptoms of trichomonas. When symptoms do occur, they include discharge from the vagina and vaginal itching and redness. Trichomonas can be diagnosed on a vaginal exam (sometimes in combination with testing samples of vaginal fluid). Treatment usually consists of oral antibiotics or an antibiotic gel which is placed in the vagina.
Some sexually transmitted diseases can’t be cured. Usually, these are due to viruses.
Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV), Human Papilloma Virus (HPV), Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV), and Hepatitis B and C can all be sexually transmitted. All can be treated with medication, but none can be cured.
Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) is the virus that causes AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome). Transmission can occur during intercourse. It is possible for transmission can occur through orogenital (oral) sex too. Anal sex is particularly risky. Transmission rates can be significantly decreased with the use of a latex condom. It can be diagnosed with a blood test and is treated with antiviral medications. Untreated, it can cause compromise of the immune system, illness, and death.
Human papillomavirus (HPV) is one of the most common STDs in the United States. There often are no signs of genital HPV. However, a few types of HPV cause warts. These can appear on the vulva, vagina, cervix, and anus. In male partners, they may occur on the penis, scrotum, or anus.
Sometimes warts go away on their own. If they do not, there are several treatments for warts available at your doctor’s office. Treating yourself with over-the-counter wart medications (compound W etc.) is NOT recommended.
Even after the warts have cleared up, the virus may be present. The virus can remain in the body for weeks or years without any symptoms.
Certain types of the HPV virus are associated with an increased risk of cervical cancer. HPV also may be linked to cancer of the anus, vulva, vagina, penis, head, and neck.
Some types of HPV infection and pre-cancerous changes in the cervix are detected with a Pap Smear or Pap Test. So while your Pap Smear doesn’t test for sexually transmitted diseases per se, it can diagnose HPV-related conditions.
If abnormalities associated with HPV are found on your Pap Smear, your doctor will discuss diagnosis and treatment options with you. You may also want to discuss the HPV vaccine, which prevents several types of HPV infections, and can be given to most girls and women aged 9-26 regardless of whether they have had an HPV infection in the past.
Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV) causes herpes. It also causes “cold sores” on the face and mouth. Although people sometimes refer to the HSV 1 virus as “oral herpes” and the HSV 2 virus as “genital herpes”, both viruses can cause lesions in both areas, so this distinction isn’t particularly useful. The best description is to say that genital herpes is any herpes ocurring on the genitals, regardless of virus subtype (1 or 2).
The most common symptom of genital herpes is a sore on or around the genitals. These sores are often multiple, usually red or blister-like, and may be itchy or exquisitely painful. The sores can last from a few days to a few weeks. Herpes can be diagnosed by a combination of physical exam, viral culture of open sores, and blood tests.
The symptoms go away by themselves, but the virus remains in your body. The sores may come back at any time, usually in the same place they first occurred. Treatment can help heal the sores and reduce the number of future outbreaks, but it cannot kill the virus.
A person who has herpes can transmit the virus even in the absence of symptoms. If you or your partner have oral or genital herpes, avoid sex from the time of first symptoms until a few days after the scabs have gone away.
The Hepatitis B and C viruses can also be transmitted by sexual intercourse. Hepatitis may occur with limited or no symptoms, but often leads to jaundice, anorexia (poor appetite) and malaise. Hepatitis is acute when it lasts less than six months and chronic when it persists longer. Chronic hepatitis may be asymptomatic, but can cause cirrhosis (scarring of the liver), liver failure, liver cancer, and death. Hepatitis B and C can be diagnosed by blood tests. Treatment is directed at reducing symptoms and slowing the progression of the disease.
The Hepatitis B vaccine reduces the risk of contracting hepatits and is widely available. It is recommended to all children and to high-risk adults (those with multiple sexual partners, who use intravenous drugs, or who are in occupations which may involve exposure to blood or other bodily fluids). There is no hepatitis C vaccine.
Hepatitis A, by the way, is not sexually transmitted. It is food-borne and does not result in chronic infection. It causes an acute gastrointestinal illness and is often contracted by eating undercooked shellfish. So, You can still get it in Vegas. You’re welcome.
So, remember, there are some souvenirs nobody wants to bring home from vacation (or any other encounter). If you have a new sexual partner or have any other reason to think you may be at risk for sexually transmitted infection, visit your heathcare provider for simple tests.
And since I started this post with a poorly conceived joke, I’ll end with one. Practice safe sex: Use your head (and use protection when giving it)!
Abstinence: The world’s oldest form of contraception
There’s a lot more buzz about abstinence than there was when I was a teenager. My high school generated a lot of buzz back in the 1995 when it was the first on Long Island to distribute condoms. (Then again, a lot of the fashion in those days had an unintended contraceptive effect.) But I think the pendulum has begun to swing the other way in a lot of communities. So I think it may be time to take another look at abstinence.
Abstinence is the oldest and cheapest form of contraception. Not having sex with a male partner is a sure way for a woman to avoid pregnancy. 100%. Pretty simple math.
Historically, abstinence has the method of choice for a lot of people because of expectations set by religious faith and family roles. You remember: First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in a baby carriage. Premarital sex and unintended pregnancy don’t rhyme well. (Neither does Baby Bjorn, so I guess baby carriages are also a more moral option for infant transport).
The downside of abstinence is that it can be an unrealistic expectation, especially for younger people. Teens in particular may struggle with their natural inclination and interest toward sex. This is compounded by things like peer pressure and widening social acceptance of premarital sex and sex outside of monogamous relationships. We won’t even go into what constitutes maintaining one’s “virginity.” But oral sex doesn’t get you pregnant.
If you choose to abstain from sex, it’s not a bad idea to have a back-up plan (ie condoms, the pill, etc…). This doesn’t mean you’re not committed to abstinence, it means you’re realistic. You wouldn’t drive a car without a spare tire, would you? Does that mean you’re planning on getting a flat? No. It means you’re responsible. What? You don’t know how to change a flat? Well, that’s what boyfriends are for.